In dealing with people with differing traits, it helps to determine how best to communicate with them. It's best to "talk their language"
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Extraverts
- let them talk, and think out loud
- include a variety of topics
- communicate verbally
- expect immediate action
- keep the conversation moving
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Introverts
- Ask, then listen carefully
- talk about one thing at a time
- communicate in writing, if possible
- give them adequate time to reflect
- don't finish their sentences
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Sensors
- State topic clearly
- prepare facts and examples
- present information step-by-step
- stress practical applications
- finish our sentences
- draw on past, real experiences
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Intuitives
- talk about the "big picture" and its implications
- talk about possibilities
- use analogies and metaphors
- engage their imaginations
- don't overwhelm then with details
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Thinkers
- be organized and logical
- consider the cause and effect
- focus on consequences
- don't ask how the "feel"; ask what they "think"
- appeal to their sense of fairness
- Don't repeat yourself
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Feelers
- first mention points of agreement
- appreciate their efforts and contributions
- recognize legitimacy of feelings
- talk about "people" concerns
- smile and maintain good eye contact
- be friendly and considerate
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Judgers
- be on time and be prepared
- come to conclusions; don't leave issues unresolved
- be decisive and definite
- allow them to make decisions
- be organized and efficient; dont' waste their time
- stick with plans made
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Perceivers
- expect many questions
- don't force them to decide prematurely
- provide opportunities to discuss options and change plans
- focus on the process, not product
- give them choices
- be open to new information
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reference: The art of SpeedReading People